Well she could still be attracted to him, that doesn't change. But I mean, come on, how serious can you be if you want to sleep around?

 

not all guys see it like that. obviously this guy does, but some don't think that a girl kissing another girl is cheating. and i know not all guys are turned on by it, but i know of very few who arent.

 

That's what I meant.
The point isn't whether she still wants her bf or not after cheating...the point is that she cheated, whether with a guy or girl, doesn't make a difference. And yes, kissing somebody else is cheating.

 

Every relationship is different. that's why you need open lines of communication so that things like this don't happen. If he had known that this is something she may have considered, they either wouldn't have been together or he wouldn't have been so surprised about it.

As far as my curiousity goes, every guy (3 guys) that i've dated, seriously, has known about it and we've talked about it. One hated the idea. One loved the idea and wanted in on it. The other like the idea but didn't want it brought into the relationship. I, also, don't want it brought into the relationship b/c i know that it will, in teh end, ruin it. However, that doesn't change the fact that I'm admittidly curious.

Communication is a key factor in something like this.

and for the record, i've never acted on these curiosities.

 

Wow, amazing how reserved you lot are.

Personally I think it'd be great to have a gf that brought home chicks to hook up with every once in a while. As long as she's not dating them, and only bringing them around for purely physical stuff, I might as well enjoy the benefits such a situation presents to me as well.

Hell, the chick on the show didn't even want to hook up with another chick, she just knew that it would piss off her boyfriend.

 

I'm conservative as a mother****er.
Relationships are monogamous, or they're don't mean shit, IMO.

 

:werd: i think everyone's missing that point. The didn't even kiss. it was all fake. She knew her bf was spying on her, so she turned the tables so that he actually had something to spy on.

 

Didn't he get violent at the end? I didn't watch the whole thing.

 

honestly though, do you really think that your relationship would last? At first it would be all fun and games..but after awhile, even if I were the one bringing the other girl in, I'd get jealous as fawk watching my man look and touch and enjoy another girl.

 

that was set up too.