Originally Posted by redgoober4life
Well obviously if you're "curious" you have want to...try things out. I suppose the better question is why are they both in the relationship if he doesn't like that and she obviously really wants to.
I don't know, serious relationships which are agreed by both people to be monogomous doesn't mean if one is curious that they should just go test their litmus paper.
Every relationship is different. that's why you need open lines of communication so that things like this don't happen. If he had known that this is something she may have considered, they either wouldn't have been together or he wouldn't have been so surprised about it.
As far as my curiousity goes, every guy (3 guys) that i've dated, seriously, has known about it and we've talked about it. One hated the idea. One loved the idea and wanted in on it. The other like the idea but didn't want it brought into the relationship. I, also, don't want it brought into the relationship b/c i know that it will, in teh end, ruin it. However, that doesn't change the fact that I'm admittidly curious.
Communication is a key factor in something like this.
and for the record, i've never acted on these curiosities.