Man I know how that feels. Every time I see this girl I talk to or want to talk to at work but I can't, it sucks. Every time I see her, my heart sinks into my stomach. I haven't had the courage to talk to her lately, I feel as though she wants nothing to do with me. I think she has an idea that I like her. I believe this is the first time I have actually been in love with someone. I know what infatuation is and have been through that a bunch of times. For once I feel as though she has filled in a spot in my heart. :wtc:

 

Have you ever even talked to her? Does she know your name?

 

Yes she knows my name. Yes I have talked to her several times before, yes she knows who I am. Yes we have gone out a couple of times. She has invited me to a couple of her parties before. I've known her about a year and half now and when I first met her we just talked and thought nothing much of each other, other then co-workers. As time progressed however, I guess she kind of grew on to me.

 

I think it's a Seinfeld quote

 

might as well post here too h:

 

kind of like teh same situation. she knew me, we talked, etc . ., but i always had the feeling that she knew i liked her, and that made it seem like i didnt want to talk to her then, and lots and lots of crap thinking. my confidence level sucked too, but i just sayed **** it, i got balls, ill just go for it.

 

my last gf of 1.5 years .. thats how we started out. We worked with each other for like a year, said hi once in a while.. then all the sudden we started talking, and everything was awesome.

 

Yeah I really just one of these days would love to just ask her out but I seem to not be able to see myself to just do it. I feel as though she'll say no and never want anything to do with me again. I wish I had more confidence in myself when it came to women.

 

i thought and still kind of think the same way. but i just said to myself that i just have to say it, just get it out, it honestly felt so much better after i got it out. and honestly, what do you have to loose?

 

That's true, so true. I would like to tell her but I don't want her to feel awkward about it and make her feel uncomfortable. Hell even my co-workers and friends say that we would be a good match.