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so i finally confessed my love tonight to the girl i liked for 6 years

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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Singhg83
see thats the thing man, after i told her i liked her, i was much more relaxed around her. i mean, ultimatly i would have wanted it to have worked out so that we were an "item", but its not to happen i guess. agian as i mentioned, as long as shes happy, thats fine with me. the thing is that she and her bf have been going out for some time so, i have an intuition that it won't really happen any time soon.
after you told her tonite you mean?

as much as youd like to have something more with her i strongly advise against it

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i confessed, and almost made her cry, and she said no one has ever said anything that nice to her, but, she has a bf.
this tells me she likes you but cant respect you as a S/O or be attracted to you
how is her current bf? is he a jerk or is he a ok guy for her?

at any rate, its good you grew out of the crush
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 10:30 AM
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i've met at least one chick who was hot, and yet very quiet. Very laid back, honest, and not all bitchy everytime things weren't all about her. And she didn't just walk off whenever the focus shifted away from her for more than a minute.
But I don't know too many like that.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Grifter
this tells me she likes you but cant respect you as a S/O or be attracted to you
how is her current bf? is he a jerk or is he a ok guy for her?

at any rate, its good you grew out of the crush
from my understanding and asking a few people, who seems to be a good person, nice and all that gravy stuff. i think though he is like 4-5 years older, but i dont think that is a major factor in their relationship.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted by bluetwo
i've met at least one chick who was hot, and yet very quiet. Very laid back, honest, and not all bitchy everytime things weren't all about her. And she didn't just walk off whenever the focus shifted away from her for more than a minute.
But I don't know too many like that.
the ironic thing was that, she was EXACTLY like that. she was beutiful, yet down to earth about it, and she had common sence. not much hyped up about herself, just fine.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 05:12 PM
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:wtc: im gonna kill her bf for ya.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 06:17 PM
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Bumnah knows about Indian girl drama because he is one.

I own page 2 bitches

Yeah, but my penis is still bigger. :fawk:
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by aux
:wtc: im gonna kill her bf for ya.
hehehehhahahahahah

you the man
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted by tark_o
yeah but Indian girls are worst then others! when you break up with a Indian chick get ready for hell, call like all night long. And then they start cam paining, they try to rally as much people as they can so that you look like a ass hole even if you didn't do anything wrong.
yeh well they certainly do round up people for their cause. I've seen that happen plenty of times.

there's a considerable difference between indian chicks that come from overseas cities and chicks that are born and raised here in the states. the chicks that come from overseas that I've met are slightly groomed for the whole arrainged marriage deal moreso than domestic chicks - thus they expect guys to be dedicated and care for them. In return they can be VERY sweet women who will cook and do stuff for you.

my point is that if she's from overseas it might hurt her in a different way versus an "ABCD" chick.

FYI - I'm indian as well.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by maskedSONY
yeh well they certainly do round up people for their cause. I've seen that happen plenty of times.

there's a considerable difference between indian chicks that come from overseas cities and chicks that are born and raised here in the states. the chicks that come from overseas that I've met are slightly groomed for the whole arrainged marriage deal moreso than domestic chicks - thus they expect guys to be dedicated and care for them. In return they can be VERY sweet women who will cook and do stuff for you.

my point is that if she's from overseas it might hurt her in a different way versus an "ABCD" chick.

FYI - I'm indian as well.
she, my brown blooded brotha came here when she was like 4 years old. now shes 20. i think she has a greater influence from living here in the states than she did from india.
i was born and raised here in the states. and the strange thing is that you are correct, in the whole domestic/import chic thing. indian girls from anywhere are lots of drama, but again, if i could choose and god willing that this may happen, that when i get to have a gf, that it would not really matter where she came from, and more over worry about other crap.
meh.
again, you are correct on the whole demestic/import thing.
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Old Oct 23, 2004 | 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by maskedSONY
yeh well they certainly do round up people for their cause. I've seen that happen plenty of times.

there's a considerable difference between indian chicks that come from overseas cities and chicks that are born and raised here in the states. the chicks that come from overseas that I've met are slightly groomed for the whole arrainged marriage deal moreso than domestic chicks - thus they expect guys to be dedicated and care for them. In return they can be VERY sweet women who will cook and do stuff for you.

my point is that if she's from overseas it might hurt her in a different way versus an "ABCD" chick.

FYI - I'm indian as well.
I too agree! that is why i am not against marrying in India or a "arranged wedding"...porblem is that my parent were actually born in Zaire, so no more roots in India, just the cultur of NRI mixed with east african, euripean and Canadian!! so myself i am some sort of "CBCD".
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