So my girlfriend of two years and 3 months left me...
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ive been in your shoes before..being the one who made the mistakes..the best advice i can give you is...let time do its thing. If you still want to be with her..don't crowd her now..but try to prove to her somehow how sorry you are and that you've changed (only if you have). If you mean as much to her as she means to you, she might want to come back to you. Dont **** up again though...Good Luck..and Hang in there, it'll work out one way or another.
pukimonster
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hp:
It kinda sounds like you're a stalker. My ex was like that. Really, if you want her to take you back, or at least be friends with you, just act like a normal friend. Say "hi, how are you doing?" instead of stuff like "so, what are you doing?". My ex, a while after me and her broke up, started showing that she cared about me instead of showing that she was overly-obsessive. I really thought that it was adorable. The thing was that I had already moved on, and was with somebody else. But me and her are still cool to this day
It kinda sounds like you're a stalker. My ex was like that. Really, if you want her to take you back, or at least be friends with you, just act like a normal friend. Say "hi, how are you doing?" instead of stuff like "so, what are you doing?". My ex, a while after me and her broke up, started showing that she cared about me instead of showing that she was overly-obsessive. I really thought that it was adorable. The thing was that I had already moved on, and was with somebody else. But me and her are still cool to this day
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DeeCeeFo'
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haha yeah it sounds like that real bad. But really im not like that, it was a stupid move and so many things were racing through my mind a million miles per hour it was impossible to think clearly.
Thanks for the advice. And to those that say good ridance maybe you're right maybe you're wrong. But thats not helpful, right now I need time to change and think about what I need to do for myself to change things I do.
Thanks for the advice. And to those that say good ridance maybe you're right maybe you're wrong. But thats not helpful, right now I need time to change and think about what I need to do for myself to change things I do.
cause it's tight!
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Originally Posted by RB
good ridance dude...now that I look back, having my gf of two years break up w/ me was the best thing for me. Now as soon as she moves her ass out, I'll be back to normal 
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DeeCeeFo'
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Originally Posted by maskedSONY
Eh, well sometimes you just dont know until you screw up.
Anyways, I agree with what CivicChik97 said. You're gonna have to prove yourself, etc. Its a mountain to climb.
Anyways, I agree with what CivicChik97 said. You're gonna have to prove yourself, etc. Its a mountain to climb.
Originally Posted by Duff Man
What did you lie about?
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Originally Posted by honda_pilot
How am I to prove something like that without being with her? Wouldn't she have to be there to see? I mean she won't even talk to me.
Going into VIP at strip club. But nothing happened really it was w34ksauce.
Going into VIP at strip club. But nothing happened really it was w34ksauce.
sounds like she's insecure as well :down: Hate to sound insensitive but if thats what sparked this, your much better off.