Hey guys, I need alittle insight on a female problem and you guys seem to be pretty good with this kind of stuff. here goes
Case 1: first off I was with this girl named Heather for a few months and everything was cool till we when to a buddy of mine's party. well long story short she got really trashed and ended up in the bathroom with a guy I know. so we broke up for like 6 months and just a couple weeks ago she came back in to my life and we have been messing around and have "fun" anyways I don't know if I want to be in a relationship with her again because I don't know if I can trust her. I mean everything was great till we got the "title" she is confuseing me now because I cant tell what she wants.
Case 2: there is this other girl which I thought I was in love with for like 3 years, the only problem with this is, I am the so called other guy here. well anyways I finally had enough of all the games and sneeking around so I stopped talking to her. alittle more then three months go by and she pops up at my work to give me back a shirt I let her hold one night. I mean I have not seen or talked to her for three months and she pops up just to give me a shirt... :werd: well she gives me her phone number and asked me to called her so we could talk. well I didnt and for then next three days she trys to track me down. finally she shows up at my front door at 8 at night and asks if we can talk. we ended up talking till 4am. she still has her boyfriend, which she refers to a an asshole. ok so my question is should I do?

 

girl number 1: she cheated on you once,..she will do it again if you get back with her

girl number 2: you didnt straight out say it but im assuming this girl cheated on her man with you,..and you make it sound like she will leave her man for you,..think about this,..if she cheats on her boyfriend and is willing to leave him for you,..what makes you think she wont cheat on you and leave you for another guy if the chance arises

 

true for both. the first girl seems like she has changed, she stopped smoking and she doesn't drink anymore. but like you said once a cheat always a cheat.

yeah the girl says she wants to be with me but she is having a hard time leaveing the guy she is with now. they have been together for 2 1/2 years. they both are driving me nuts.

 

find a 3rd option...

 

Plan C.

 

yeah guess your right. thanx

 

if it makes my head hurt this much it is not worth it

 

I woulda have said go for the second girl.. but once you helped her cheat on her bf then all bets are off.

as for the first.. maybe she has changed.. who know's..

 

well thats the reason why I am still looking in to the first chick, she might of changed. but I am going to still keep my gaurd up.

 

give it to boff of dem :idb:

problem solved :grinpimp:

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