need help with my girl problems
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From: Gulfport MS
Originally Posted by WideBodyEK
girl number 1: she cheated on you once,..she will do it again if you get back with her
girl number 2: you didnt straight out say it but im assuming this girl cheated on her man with you,..and you make it sound like she will leave her man for you,..think about this,..if she cheats on her boyfriend and is willing to leave him for you,..what makes you think she wont cheat on you and leave you for another guy if the chance arises
girl number 2: you didnt straight out say it but im assuming this girl cheated on her man with you,..and you make it sound like she will leave her man for you,..think about this,..if she cheats on her boyfriend and is willing to leave him for you,..what makes you think she wont cheat on you and leave you for another guy if the chance arises
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From: Mexico, by Jaymar
1. I'd either just keep it as a "mess around" type deal, or tell her to pound sand.
2. not worth the trouble, was in a similar situation as you. Except, I never let anything happen between her and I, because of the boyfriend. I look back at it now and see how much of a dumbass I was back then.
2. not worth the trouble, was in a similar situation as you. Except, I never let anything happen between her and I, because of the boyfriend. I look back at it now and see how much of a dumbass I was back then.
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From: Your Mom's House
Widebody has it dead on. You can't mess with un-trustworthy girls if you don't want to get hurt.
And as much as everyone thinks its cool to be in a "friends w/ benefits" scenario... it really isn't. I mean there are the perks, but really, if its someone you care about, the physical closeness just sorta turns it into something more than you want it to be... its emotionally draining, and almost always ends in ugliness.
And as much as everyone thinks its cool to be in a "friends w/ benefits" scenario... it really isn't. I mean there are the perks, but really, if its someone you care about, the physical closeness just sorta turns it into something more than you want it to be... its emotionally draining, and almost always ends in ugliness.
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From: York PA
#1: play it cool...keep it the way it is for now..just hanging out, "messing around" whatever...and see if you can see any signs that shes changed. its possible, trust me. 
but dont jump into anything with her until you're positive..
#2: shes taken. whether he's an asshole or not, she's with him. forget her until shes single.
but dont jump into anything with her until you're positive..#2: shes taken. whether he's an asshole or not, she's with him. forget her until shes single.
