I've told you guys about my ex friend who married my ex boyfriend a month after him and I broke up.

Well after 2 years, I could finally forgive her. We spoke today for the first time in 2 years.

It was so hard forgiving her because i was so angry, but talking to her really helped enlighten the situation, and made me feel better.

the question is:
Could you forgive some one for hurting you like this, or would you hold a grudge?

 

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After two years and finding somebody else, I'm sure I could.

 

Depends on how long you were with the ex and if it truly meant something. If your relationship did, then there is no way I could forgive. Absolutely no way.

 

you cant move on without forgiving...IMO....it doesnt make you weak, it makes you stronger

 

Probably not, i feel that once someone does you wrong, and wrong like that, i just cannot ever speak to that person. THat person becomes non-existing to me and i try to forget them and act as if i never met them or they do not exist.

 

I really don't know. That would be a hurt that I'm not sure I could ever get past.

But if you are able to, then more power to you.