The only thing that I care about is to be able to make eye contact with the girl once in a while and not have her say "What?" and get all confused, like me making eye contact during a conversation is somehow violating her.

I have discovered it's about a 50/50 thing.

 

:werd: My sentiments precisely..

I look for intelligence and compassion and sanity as well as beauty. h:
Above all, I'm to the point in my life now where I want someone who is secure in themselves and knows what they want out of the relationship, too.

So yeah, I'm the picky type, too. I don't see it as problem. I value quality over quantity. I devote myself to the relationship, but I expect reciprocity. Granted, nearly all of my relationships have been long term... 6 mos at a minimum. So there you have it. h:

 

I've never had one over 6 months... one of us always gets tired of the other by then. :dunno:

 

Well... I haven't had that many, either [see above post]h:

 

i think i need to date an asshole for a while..

 

:doh: This is a behavior pattern in women that I will never understand. h:

 

this is a conscious decision though.. dating nice guys is boring and is far from a challenge..plus im an aggressive girl i need someone who can tame me ..grrrr

 

Oh I need to check out her bellaaayyy....

Girls with nice bellies rock :happysad:

 

h: As fatal as boredom is to a relationship... I fail to see how pursuing one with a largely irresponsible, unappreciative troglodyte can be healthy... h: even if said troglodyte is an Adonis.

 

ladder theory h: