Originally Posted by antarius
I used to not be picky, but with age you get more picky. You begin to realize what you deserve and don't deserve, and suddenly the aspect of "I might get ass" isn't so appealing, you want more.
I personally am very picky nowadays. I want someone with the four s's (esses). 1) Smart 2) Sexy 3) Sane 4) Straight....
:werd: My sentiments precisely..
I look for intelligence and compassion and sanity as well as beauty.
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Above all, I'm to the point in my life now where I want someone who is secure in themselves and knows what they want out of the relationship, too.
So yeah, I'm the picky type, too. I don't see it as problem. I value quality over quantity. I devote myself to the relationship, but I expect reciprocity. Granted, nearly all of my relationships have been long term... 6 mos at a minimum. So there you have it.
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