well here's the situation. me and my girl freind have been going out for almost two months now and. for like two weeks now i haven't been able to even speak or even talk to her. i know she is busy with her music career and all but everytime i try to call her or e-mail her her phone is busy or she does not reply to her e-mails. i know i didn't do anything wrong she just doesn't talk to me :wtc: . is she trying to get rid of me ?. this usually doesn't happen usually we spend all of the time we can to spend with each other. this shits bothering me pretty bad i dunno what to do help me please:wtc:

 

Ah Double Thread

 

never mind sorry i thought the other one didn't go through :loco:

 

where does she live? if its a long distance (which i think it is) ... sadly they're hard to work out. maybe a break is gonna be good for the both of you?

 

well she lives about 45 minutes away. and about that break thing it would be nice ti know thats what she wants instead of not just talking to me . we never evr got into any arguments. well we did but it was the playful kiond you know the kind where your just playin around making fun of eachother and laughing about it. there is something else as well i am going on leave here in three weeks. and she is supposwsed to come with me but she can't because she has to make a music video. and she thinks for some reason or the other that i am going to cheat on her with my ex girlfriend because she had seen some pix of her that was in my room that i totally forgot i had i told her that i am not that kind of person because i know how that feels to have been cheated on. and i left it at that. and she believed me . or did she?

 

making a phone call or sending an email isnt that hard. noone is THAT busy. drop the ho h:

 

itz really hard for girls to get over jealousy issues i think..
with my ex-gf, even if she saw me just say hi to the gf before her, she'd get really upset. yeahh..
i dont think she TOTALLY trusts you about it.. she wants to..but you just need to show more care and loyalty to her now more than ever. do you HAVE to leave in 3 weeks? if there is a slight opportunity to stay, i'd stay if i wanted to keep the girl

 

good point she should have the time to atleast e-mail/phone me to tell me whats going on. but i still dunno whats going on with out no communication i cant know that sux

 

well the thing is that i had planned it with her to take leave i am leaving three weeks and she is going/ was supposed to come to my island (i live in hawaii)three weeks afterwards and spend 10 days with me then we come back to japan together. when i am at home for three weeks by myself is when she thinks i will do it. the other thing is she had a jealous boyfriend before me and the one before that cheated on her. and i think of it this way i had not seen my family in over a year and a half and i hadn't seen my goddaughter for that long as well. plus my own nephew doesn't remember me anymore and i haven't seen the other new additions to my family.