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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:13 AM
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Originally posted by Slacker
Stop leading him on!!!!!:fawk:

Originally posted by reno96teg
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you're only making it worse for yourself AND him.
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:19 AM
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i dont think im leading him on at all. he is just a friend. ive never given him the impression that i was interested. if he mistook what i say or do as something more, that is not my fault...hes reading too much into it.
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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Just gotta tell the guy straight up, "I am not interested".
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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He sounds obsessive. I have a girl who is being obsessive with me right now. Hell, I told her 2 months ago I was catching a vibe from her and that I did not want a relationship since I just came out of a long term one. Blah Blah Blah, typical woman stuff, blah blah and now she tells me that she likes me and wants to date me. Stupid women.


Anyway, he seems like an OCD. Explain to him the Ladder Theory and let him sort it out.
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:32 AM
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Originally posted by RezzasVTEC
Tell him exactly that then...tell him "derek...you are an amazing guy!
I know I'm amazing, but I'm not the subject of this thread, DERRICK is.
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 08:43 AM
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Originally posted by kilpatty43
ive never given him the impression that i was interested.
are you sure? just in this thread, you've being very dramatic and indecisive about it. i can just imagine how you're reacting to him in person.

for example,
im not interested in him that way and if i go out on a date w/him im scared he'll get the wrong impression
if you go out on a date with him!? knowing what he feels for you, why would you even consider going there? of course he'd get the wrong impression. just say NO! it's obvious to me that that's not the answer that you want to hear, but it's the only one.

you know what the problem is? most girls feel the need to have every guy like them, even if they're not interested in the least.
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 09:06 AM
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everyone has had this problem
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 09:13 AM
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im meeting him for lunch today to get this all worked out...i'll let yall know what happens
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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 09:53 AM
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Originally posted by kilpatty43
im meeting him for lunch today to get this all worked out...i'll let yall know what happens


i'm not sure anyone really cares that much.



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Old Jan 14, 2004 | 09:56 AM
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Originally posted by kilpatty43
im meeting him for lunch today to get this all worked out...i'll let yall know what happens
I liked the bad blowjob example. My little sister (greek life) got the nickname shredder. That was bad :naughty:
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