maybe you forgot something?? or maybe she found something that she didnt like? ive done that...found something i didnt like and copped an attitude until he realized something was wrong...then i bitched. h:

 

your weird.

 

well I asked her whats wrong, she is like "no, nothing is wrong". Thats really shitty. I put up with A LOT of her shit, I know she probably does too with mine, but trust me, I am really easy going compared to her..

 

oh well then she's not getting it, and if she wants it dump her ass


she's lying, something is wrong. she just wants you to figure it out.

its immature, yes. if you don't like it, dump her, because its gonna happen again.

 

can you clarify on WHO is weird, please?


well, if its something really bad, she'll tell you eventually. if you dont feel like digging it out of her, dont. if she tells you, good...if not, oh well.

she couldve just had a bad day or something? women get in moods sometimes where they dont want to be touched or around anyone...who knows. :dunno:

 

ok heres my advice

ask her whats wrong
if she tells you "nothing" then tell her youre going to act like nothings wrong and you dont want any drama

if she tells you "you should know" or something along those lines
ive had my gf do that to me and i tell her:
i cant read your mind. if somethings bothering you you need to tell me so i dont do it again. same as youd want me to tell you something you do bothers me

 

What I always did that worked with my ex that flew off the handle like that...

"Look Hon, I think something is wrong, but I don't know what's going on. I'm a guy, so I'm dumb that way, but I would like to try and fix anything if I can, and I am asking you if there's anything I could do or should have done to prevent this situation. If there isn't anything wrong and it's all in my head, I'm sorry because again, I am dumb that way... But if there is something, please tell me... I wont be mad or angry or think it's stupid, but I do want to solve it and make you feel better... Would you be OK telling me if everything is OK or not?"

Worked like a charm, got her (A normally uncommunicative girl who would, before dating me, would rather storm out of the house and disappear from the offending b/f's life for a couple days) to actually open up and tell me how she was feeling... and I always asked her "So if I did this, that would make you feel more comfortable? before I committed to any course of action...


***edit: RULE NUMBER 1: Avoid using "You" as MUCH AS POSSIBLE... change the perspective and say "I feel..."... it really can save your ass...

 

That's just fawkin' :ghey:
Why do girls have to play the "You need to figure it out" game...if something's wrong, just say something, you stupid ass bitch! (not calling your g/f a bitch, just all girls in general :chuckles: )

 

This is ****ing bs, I just spoke with her and she gave me an attitude like everything is my fault. I don't need this shit in my life. I am just sad I spent all these money on her AND I paid for dinner.
My advice to people would be, either stay single or find someone who is not a bitch.

 

:goodjob:
kick her to the curb!