cant find the reset button and getting it to the dealership doesnt fit in my schedule. any help?

 

You can try the same thing that works for the Pilot, I'd take a gamble that it'll work.

Turn the key to ON, hold the select/reset/dimmer button for 10 seconds untill light blinks. Let go, then immediatly hold for four more seconds untill it blinks again. Turn key to off and check if it worked.

What year?? No owners manual??

 

its an 04 i assumed they wouldnt share that info so that id have to take it in for them to play with. ill take a look and try your advice, thanks!

 

Even easier than that, just hold the reset button down, then turn ignition to "on" position, and hold until light goes out.