My dad never drove a BMW or whatever, but he damn well could afford one. He drove a used Hyundai because it was cheap and good on gas. As a result of his moderation he retired at 47. Also, none of us did without growing up. We all had cars and horses and stylish clothes. Just because a man doesn't feel the need to have big "penis" car doesn't mean he lacks the means to have it. Never judge a book by it's cover.