Originally posted by jschmid
I'm truly amazed at your need for approval from everyone to mod your car. Seriously, I'm not trying to be rude...just do exactly what you want to you car. It's okay to ask opinions, that's what this board is for. But you've asked these questions 3-4 times now, and you've already heard the board's opinions.
Most everyone on here is going to say that a bigger wing, chrome wheels and neons behind your plate is going to look dumb, and I agree. But that's the thing...it's not our car. Just make it the way you want it.
Of the things you mentioned, the mild drop will look great on your car.
My two peices of advice here: 1. Don't let a shop decide what suspension products they use to drop the car, and 2. if you spend $4K on wheels and tires you are getting ripped big time unless they are forged or 3piece or something along those lines.
Last thing...from what you've posted about your car, seems that you're pretty dissatisfied with it. I'd save that money and get a new car that you really like instead of spending it on a car you don't really love.
Now, feel free to comment, but please don't try and argue with me. These are my opinions, you don't have to agree or try to change my mind. 
Thanks J, I understand and take into consideration that these are your opinions; I will consider what to do on my own now. I think you are right about putting the money into another vehicle; but because I am absolutely tied with that situation right now and cant do anything about it (I need to hold onto this vehicle for the time being for certain family/personal reasons), I was considering doing the above mods only to kind of "pacify" myself while I need to live with the car; to kind of hold me over because the current way the car is OEM modded is beginning to feel old. Thanks for the tips again though.