I think if you still love your ex(and I think you do, or you wouldn't even be having this 'dilemma') you should try things and see how they work out with her this time, you never know, things could fall in to place really well and you could be very happy. BTW how old are you?
im 22.. im not really having a dilema..im just a little upset from the whole situation.. im going totally nuts about this new girl.. and i know that shes the one i wana be with right now.. just kinda worried about the old girl kuz i really feel like i ripped her heart out tonite.. why im not too sure because she was the one that broke up with me 7.5 months ago.. i guess im just too caring (scary word!!):fawk: