Oh man, I feel your pain bro, I really do.....I had some bad scratches and damages on my rear bumper from this past winter and from inconsiderate assholes just backing up into me...I had this paint guy come down to my apartment complex and he totally fixed the paint without having to repaint the whole bumper; there is a matching process of some kind that they do -- but now, the paint that he fixed looks like complete shit---it is not as shiny as the rest of the car; its like there is no clear coating on it....so I can relate.