Sorry this is kind of long if you don't want to read it then move on.

Anyways today my friend calls me and she said that she needs to talk because she's really depressed. So I go meet up with her, yes she's a she. And yes she's just a friend. Well she and I have known each other for at least a year and she's always telling me about this boyfriend that she has, how attatched she is to him and loves him, however she everytime she is with him she feels really sad and depressed and just not happy. She also tells me that when they get into fights he always yells at her and cusses at her and she threatens to leave but then her b/f just drops the whole subject and says ok ok and just moves on. She then tells me how insecure he is about her and how insecure she is sometimes not all of the time toward him, she feels that she can trust him sometimes and not all the time and needs to check on him often. And he it sounds like just wants his space and doesn't want anything to do with her. Sometimes he threatens her verbally. I feel as though one day he's going to really hurt her physically and mentally. And there relationship is kind of off and on. Constantly. When she told me she got back together with this guy I couldn't believe it with all of the shiit he's put her through, making her cry and making her feel insecure about her self and not comforting her when she needs to be. Well what I"m asking is this, she wants to get over him and is still going out with him, which I don't understand. And I want her to get over him because I don't want anything to happen to her because she's a really good person to talk to and be with.




Is there any ways for someone to get over someone for good? They've been going out I believe since she was 19 and she's 21 now. Give me some good advice that I can give to her please. This thread isn't about me it's about her so all you smart asses can kiss my ass. And for those that help out thank you.