okay so here is what i did i jerry rigged up some wires

i never had to cut my stock harness all i did was go out to the local salvage yard and and cut off harnesses off of wrecked cars (male and female end) these harnesses came off of 5th gens 6th gens and accords (95 &97) i am connecting theses plugs together and plugging them into the motor harness and the car harness i still have to put the motor in to see if it works but i will update you on that later i am getting rid of power steering so i have to change rack and pinion and also doin auto to manual swap and all of the joys that come with that. wish me luck

oh and we found out that a 95 automatic 4dr ex stock motor harness already has a knock sensor wired in FYI