Well, the dings and scratches are your own fault...I have no dings and few scratches in my car. You gotta park far away, bro.
I love the rear spoiler...I don't need something ricey. The OEM spoiler fits the car perfectly, as does the body kit. Here are some pics of my old Coupe (my current one is EXACTLY the same, save for missing front underspoiler and a year older):
The only problem I have is that the 75,000 highway miles really shows on the front end...the paint is pretty bad. Hopefully a clay bar and a good waxin will fix her. Any questions, let me know