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Old Aug 13, 2011 | 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkStarr
Been a while since we had an official thrend no?

What brings it up this time? Well.. I did a lot of searching, but couldn't find the thread where I asked about if I should tell my friend the girl he was going to marry was no good for him and using him etc etc. The advice given was to let it go and be there for him for when they split.

Well, less than a year after their marriage.. They are getting a divorce. It sounds hairy, but from what I can figure out. He wanted another kid, she didn't. She ended up getting pregnant and having a miscarriage, started acting funny, then started going to her moms after work for extended periods of time, and when she was home wouldn't act right and was always fighting and defensive. Well, apparently he hopped on her facebook and she has been chatting it up with some other guy, and he asked her if she was seeing someone else. I guess they had another fight, she packed up and moved to her moms with her kids, and he asked if she wanted to try to work it out, but she wants a divorce.

Sucky part is, if this is all true, she initiated all this and is still entitled to half of his equity, even though he already had the house and junk prior to the marriage. I still think she was just looking for someone to provide for her and her kids from the start.

Sad to say, I saw it coming, but I thought it would last longer than that..

On another note, approaching 3 years with the lady... that's about it.
Sounds very similar of what happened to me. I wish I would have had a friend tell me not to do it...
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