I don't mean it like that, I mean if she doesn't have any feelings for me, and either turns me down or agrees to go but makes it clear during that she only likes me as a friend, we could go back to as things were.

What you are describing is a classic date where, if she's not attracted to me, will result in rejection and potentially an awkward relationship with her after.

I'd probably wait and feel things out for a while, when I'm at work with her, before making a decision, but apparently, now that she broke up with her former bf, there's another co-worker who's been hitting on her(and not making progess, but it confirms that she's in demand). Plus she has another job so who knows how many dudes there might be interested. That makes me think I should act soon.
However, I was told once by someone who used to work at the same place, that she "led him on" and he was upset because, I'm assuming, he asked her out and she said no, when he'd thought for sure she was showing interest.
I believe they were friends before that, saw them together at a store once, and afterwards don't talk - I don't want that to happen in my situation.

Maybe I'm making it too complicated, maybe the worse case scenario really isn't that bad :shrug: