I could take a pic when I get home, but I can tell you it looks just fine. I have a pioneer, not an alpine, and it's way better than stock. You'll want to get a stereo dash kit if you have the double-din stereo, if you have the single-din it should slide right in. My EX had the double din as does many of the EX's so you might have to get the dash kit.
As for the iPOD setup, I don't have one so I couldn't say much about that. I've always just burnt MP3's to CD.
You might get more suggestions if this is put in the "Audio and Security" forum.