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12 volt constant White/black @ ignition harness
Starter Black/White @ ignition harness
Ignition Black/Yellow @ ignition harness
Accessory Yellow @ ignition harness

1) Cut starter wire in half (Black/White), leave some wire to work with.
2) Connect (-) when armed from Remote start or alarm to relay Terminal 85
3) Connect Starter wire (MOTOR SIDE - going to car) AND Remote Start WIRE together if available. Wire to relay Terminal 87a
4) Connect Starter Key Side (ignition cylinder) wire to relay Terminal 30
5) Connect Jumper Cable from relay Terminal 86 to relay Terminal 30
6) Place Diode across relay Terminal 85 and 86 (diode with white Line to Terminal 85)