Can someone tell me how to change my bulbs? I have a 96 civic. on one of them, i pull on the harness, and it comes off without the bulb. on the other, neither come out. So, is the harness supposed to come out without the bulb attached, and I pull the bulb out with my hand? Or is it supposed to come out attached? Am I supposed to turn it while I pull it out? I am a girl, and I am not very strong, but I really just want to know the right strategy for trying to get them out.