Originally Posted by
95SiR
so you ALWAYS fucked her with a condom on then?
getting into a car accident is NOT the same shit as getting pregnant. just because both involve "risk" doesnt make them the same situation. some of you are pretty damn dense. getting into a car accident can also involve OTHER people's actions beyond your control. getting a girl pregnant involves ONLY the two people that are fucking at the moment.... YOU and YOUR girl. dont get me wrong, manning up to your "errors/actions" and taking responsibility of the pregnancy is good... but that should be a given. my point is the initial event should not be pitied and seem like there was no "choice."
Actually it is quite the same. There's a percentage of risk involved both actions. You assume you are safe with a seatbelt on, driving the speed limit ect. just like you assume you are safe while having sex when one person is using birth control. But sometimes birth control doesn't always work just like sometimes a seatbelt doesn't always save your life. The effectiveness of birth control is one of the factors that is out of my control. Could I have taken other measures to prevent it from happening? Of course. But people could also take other measures to stay alive if they get into an accident. But this is why we call them accidents. We never intend for them to happen but they do.
Originally Posted by
95SiR
says the kid with a pregnant unmarried girlfriend. good job soldier.
Having kids out of wedlock is more common than you think. Besides, what's so wrong about it? Does it make me less of a person? Life has a shitload of speed bumps and this is one of them in my case. So what? That makes me an idiot?