sorry it took all this time to reply!! long story...so i tried my friends single slap ecu...p30 i think..but n e ways...it worked way better...so i bought another p72 ecu and it worked like a charm!!! it turned out to be that some 1 had messed around w/ the 1st ecu that i bought so i had a friends friend fix it...he burned a chip w/ a gsr program(i think thats what he said)...it isnt working like its supposed to but it helped me c that it was the ecu that was bad...so i still need to take that ecu to that 1 guy so that he could fix it again...or just install hondata s300...but the car is working fine with the last stock P72 that i bought...

im just posting this for other peoples reference...hopefully it'll help some 1 out in the future!!!