Originally Posted by
Pete
If you're too nice to a girl she'll walk all over you and consider you an easy target. Then she loses respect for you... However, while playing the asshole role, she thinks that you're more of a challenge and that perhaps she can "change you."
okay, there are 2 types of girls.
1. The one who does like the challenge. They don't see the guy as anything but a personal game. By capturing the guy, they feel like they're attractive, desirable, and pretty. If the guy runs, the girl doesn't take it as a hint. They take it as "oh, he's playing around" and the girl NEVER gives up, no matter what.
The guy could really take a dump on her laptop and close the lid ... she'd still want him, only because he doesn't want her.
It's the thought of the unattainable that drives women wild.
2. Is the one that sees and identifies the pointless game. It's all about substance and heart. These girls* don't want the chase, they don't want to be messed around with, they just want someone they can trust with everything ... including their devotion.
* please note, these girls are as mythical as the easter bunny, santa, the tooth fairy, baby raptor jesus, and 100lb max press jaymar combined.