why is it
Thread Starter
CBOTY 2010
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 34,786
Likes: 0
From: MI
why is it
the guys who dont know shit bout treating girls right get the hot chicks?
my buddy called me today to inform me he met this girl at the bar who he thinks is cute, and she thought the same thing of him so they are going to see where it goes....
im not particularly jeolous im just worried because this chick is friends with the girl ive been talking to. and knowing my buddy 3 months in he will get a complex and decide the girl is the biggest whore and just go nuts on her turning her into a monster by his account.
i dont need my buddy going nuts on the friend of a girl im working on....and making it awkward as hell trying to hang out with my friends and bringing a certain girl along
my buddy called me today to inform me he met this girl at the bar who he thinks is cute, and she thought the same thing of him so they are going to see where it goes....
im not particularly jeolous im just worried because this chick is friends with the girl ive been talking to. and knowing my buddy 3 months in he will get a complex and decide the girl is the biggest whore and just go nuts on her turning her into a monster by his account.
i dont need my buddy going nuts on the friend of a girl im working on....and making it awkward as hell trying to hang out with my friends and bringing a certain girl along
#CustomUserTitle
Joined: Mar 2002
Posts: 63,855
Likes: 1
From: glass case of emotion
just straight up tell him who you like, no need to hide it.
if he goes and does it anyways, you don't need him as a friend. Also, use this as motivation to step up your game.
There's a huge diff in "getting" a girl and "treating" a girl well. Typically, the lady sees what she likes, and doesn't realize the other stuff until later.
if he goes and does it anyways, you don't need him as a friend. Also, use this as motivation to step up your game.
There's a huge diff in "getting" a girl and "treating" a girl well. Typically, the lady sees what she likes, and doesn't realize the other stuff until later.
Thread Starter
CBOTY 2010
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 34,786
Likes: 0
From: MI
just straight up tell him who you like, no need to hide it.
if he goes and does it anyways, you don't need him as a friend. Also, use this as motivation to step up your game.
There's a huge diff in "getting" a girl and "treating" a girl well. Typically, the lady sees what she likes, and doesn't realize the other stuff until later.
if he goes and does it anyways, you don't need him as a friend. Also, use this as motivation to step up your game.
There's a huge diff in "getting" a girl and "treating" a girl well. Typically, the lady sees what she likes, and doesn't realize the other stuff until later.
no he knows who i have a thing for...its just his new obsession and "my girl" are friends. and more than likely he will wind up hating this girl in a couple months for some silly reason...which with this kid means he hates all her friends...which u may now see the issue. ive tried to talk to him about it before but to no avail... and you wouldnt believe the number of girls ive secretly steered away from him simply because i count them as friends and dont want to see them wind up with the issues he causes
pronounced tech
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 10,782
Likes: 0
From: down at Va Beach
your 'friend' sounds like a dick. ditch him as a friend if he continues to ruin all your endeavors. theres no need to keep that kind of crowd around, especially if youve already explained how hes negatively affecting your situations
Thread Starter
CBOTY 2010
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 34,786
Likes: 0
From: MI
his dad and mine have been friends since high school.. we have known eachother since we were like 3. our younger sisters are good friends...
and i really dont think i will have issues choosing the girl over him if it ends up that way. i have given him plenty of chances to smart up
Civilian
Joined: Jun 2003
Posts: 8,407
Likes: 1
From: Miami Beach. FL
If you're too nice to a girl she'll walk all over you and consider you an easy target. Then she loses respect for you... However, while playing the asshole role, she thinks that you're more of a challenge and that perhaps she can "change you."
Thread Starter
CBOTY 2010
Joined: Nov 2004
Posts: 34,786
Likes: 0
From: MI
ive come to the point of if i meet you and i realize that your still in the "girl" mindset...we prolly wont wind up being more than casual bar aquaintances and one that i try avoiding at that
h: