Now if you look close you will see the pins and wires are all in the same place(the connectors are labeled different lude is c441,c410 the accord c438,c437 but thy are both the same pin count and both fit into the tcm one is a 22pin one a 26 pin).The problem is here the lude uses a capacitor and the accord a relay.

We have to get around the lude tcm it is not supplying 12v to the accord relay it is supplying a very small amp flow to fire the capacitor.

One final q did it all work before you did the swap?

We are both nuts you know going crazy over getting out of park.I think the d4 light will go easyer.