ok...so I tried to program the remote that I purchased off of E-bay several times following the instructions posted on these forums for a 2004 honda odyssey...however....it did not work...so after sitting for 20 minutes in texas 106 weather with no a/c (obviously I could not turn it on) I have given up...this remote is very different than what I have seen as it has the trunk open option...I am very confused and trying to avoid a trip to the dealership to be asked a bunch of questions and given a lecture on not buying from them personally and so on and so forth....ANY help at this point will be useful...thank you

your friend in a stage 3 drought,

Brittany