S-AFC = piggyback fuel controller
V-AFC = S-AFC with VTEC control
AVC-R = electronic boost controller

Get some good shocks to go with your springs. KYB AGX, Tokico Illumina or Koni Sport (a.k.a. Yellow) are all good. Stick with a mid-level lowering spring like Eibach Sportline, H&R Sport, etc..."race" springs eat up too much suspension travel for street use.

Skip the Vortech FMU. To do things right you'll want a better fuel pump and higher-flow fuel injectors, and some electronic means of correcting the mixture (either an S-AFC, Hondata or AEM EMS). The S-AFC works alright but I'd go with a Hondata for a '92-95 car or an AEM EMS for a '96 up car. The Hondata also needs a boost controller to go with it, manual or electronic is up to you.