thats between you and your wife. I dont think it's "wrong" to do it, but i wouldn't and if my wife would want to teach them how to use a gun i know it would cause a big problem between us. She does have a good reason to hate guns.

1 wya to look at it is like condom in public shcools, shuold they give them out for free or not... does it push children to have sex at a earlier age cause the interpret our giving out of condoms as a green light to have sex. Or is it to protect them cause we know they are suceptible (hope i am using it the right way here) to have sex when they are still very young.

Just dont know... you and your wife should figure it out.