i took it to a tire shop

they used a 1/2 inch impact wrench made by airtech or airtech and i researched it and it has 1000lbs of torque

they had absolutely no problems taking this axle nut off it came off with ease for them with no effort at all

i have an american tool exhange twin hammer impact wrench i got from ebay with 440lbs of torque

im an idiot this tool i have is junk airtech worked so good