there are no JDM blackhousing for the 6th gen accord. the 6th gen accord is a US spec accord so they are just blackhousings. I'd recommend aginst throwing in a set of HIDs into your stock(or OEM style) headlights. the glare is an issue, I'd say hold off on the HIDs, and do a retrofit when you get the money to do it.
as for a body kit you've got the 01 coupe, I'd say your all good to go. you don't need a lip. I love the front bumper from the 01-02 coupe.