Gonna have to bump this, but I have the same problem.

I just purchased a 99 Accord EX V6 coupe and I had with me This Day Forward - Transient which is the real disc, and a burned underOATH disc. The cd player plays the real copy fine, but couldn't play the burned disc. The strange thing is that our family owns a 00 Accord EX i4 sedan and every disc burned played fine in that thing. I am currently using RiTEK cd-r's from newegg, which are supposed to be pretty good. I'm not sure if different brands matter, but I will try discs from different manufacturers (pro-disc, CMC, and even the expensive Taiyo Yudens) to see if it works...

Thank god my new coupe has a cassette player, might as well forget about cd-r's and just buy an ipod or zen micro...