Ok, well I went to the Honda dealership.
They pretty much did the whole service manual thing, then told me there's nothing more they can do with out hours of work and testing on figuring out why my vtec isn't working. I'm going to go to a scrap yard today and pick up a new vtec selinoid connector (harness side), new oil pressure sensor connector {harness side}, and a p30 ecu. What car's can I pull the ECU and connectors from, anything B?