The stock struts with Pro-Kits should not blow out for a while, especially since your car is only a few years old. Its only slightly over an inch drop, it should be fine for a while.

As for the wheel gap, I am not satisfied with the wheel gap but I am very happy with ride quality. I do have Tokico Illumnas with it though. If you are very concerned with the wheel gap, go with H&R or Eibach Sportlines. I was sick of scraping when I had my 95 Accord so I insisted on the Pro-Kits this time around.