I got it to work for about 2 weeks, then it just stopped cold turkey, so i've had it correctly wired in the past, some of my friends are saying that i might have fried the AMP b/c it constantly had power running to it.
My friend also suggested that the remote wire is messed up, cause it is what tells the Amp to turn on and off, and since to amp was alway on, sometime was messed up