Originally Posted by argetnIarucA
if he is a good freind, help him get back on his feet, but dont give him charity or let him think he is using u. u shouldnt send him packing, thats too harsh for someone who just lost a job and is a little confused right now
EDIT: i'll just read the whole post next time, but i still like my advice

Nah I don't have a problem helping a brotha out and all, but this is a pattern with him and its taking its toll.
This is the third job he has been fired from in the last year...so helping him out is not something I am inclined to do at this point, now it is a matter of being used as a friend and I will not let that happen.