Originally Posted by argetnIarucA
I want a girl freind...plain and simple, I also want to loose my virginity. I dont go about it in an abnoxious sort of way, but it may be possible that i try too hard. I noticed that i flirrt with almost every girl whose name i know, and whose bf i dont know personaly, but I still dont get anywhere with girls who have no attachments.
h: If I act layed back, like some people would say to do, nothing good (in my terms) comes out of it. It more or less seems like i have to try to start the conversation, then they are completely fine with it from then on, but they wont conversre unless i start it, or the effort i put out isn't received back in one way or the other. My one freind said i was a ladies man
and that they never are boy freinds, but that doesnt sit with me
heeeeeeelp :bowdown:
Wow, that is me EXACTLY. I've tried being different, blowing girls off, playing hard to get, blah blah blah. But I just can't do it. I don't play games, if I like a chick, she knows it. Saw this today and it is so ridiculously true:
"A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired."