ok after LOTS of pain and aggravation this is where i am:
i am left with the middle section of the bolt stuck in the control arm. i am worried the bolt and the bushing are fused. i'm also concerned on how to knock the bolt out of the arm without bending the arm too much(and messing up the lca-subframe bolt area).
the control arm and trailing arm are free from each other.

plz, i need suggestions on what to do to get the middle section of the bolt out