best way to do it that I have found is go to a party and hang out...talk to a few girls whatev if you meet one that you think is cool just be like "yo can I get your number so we can hang out some time" something along those lines....she will like the fact that you arent tryin to **** her while she is drunk..........I usually find out if a girl tokes and just ask for her number so we can smoke some time.....then we hang out smoke shoot the shit...whatever..that is the best way I have met people