Originally Posted by SUPER KiMBO
did u ever think of it from the gf's side of view? If she had known u were gonna b her bf, and that doing anything w/any1 else would upset u...she wouldnt have done it...rite?
so y would u take things out on her because of her past?
isnt it enough that a girl wants to b w/you NOW?
so she had an intimate relationship before, does that make her not have values/morals? Most girls go into a long term relationship thinking things will last forever, so they get intimate, wen it doesnt work out, they move on.
You dump them because of their history, i dont think "values" is the rite word, more like stubborn, unforgiving, jealous, and not having enough confidence.
You're pushing people away w/the way you're handling your "values"
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I have a serious question for you Sean.. Let's say you get married to a virgin, and you finally embark on a sexual relationship. Years down the road, something terrible happens, and you end up divorced or widowed (god forbid). Would you stay single again for the rest of your life because it would be virtually impossible to find a woman to be with who was in your age group AND still a virgin, or would you look for a woman who was much younger than you and still a virgin, just because she was a virgin?
I really don't think it's fair for you to hold a woman's past against her. I'm not saying you should date a slut, because you never know what kind of nastiness is crawling around down there :ugh: but that's not the case for most non-virgins. Like Kim said, many, many girls get into long term relationships thinking it's going to end up lasting forever/resulting in marriage, and they enter into sexual relationships with their bfs. IMO, there is nothing wrong with sharing that intimacy with someone you genuinely care for and even (gasp!) LOVE, even if the two involved are not married.
JMHO. :dunno: