If you don't know the connection between Clerks and Jay and Silent Bob Strike back stfu. Anyway I was very casual with sex before I met my wife, and the funny thing is is that we didn't have sex for almost a month after we met. For me that is like a lifetime but I just wanted to be with her. Sex is not a bad thing as long as you are safe and I am not a whore god damnit, just a connesiur of women. In all reality I wish my number was way smaller it was hard to tell the girl I fell in love with that I was so used.