I can respect your decision axemansean, but from the otherside I think your really missing out on a lot of life. Some people view sex as a sacred act I guess. It's not something you should do with just anyone IMO, but as long 2 people are in love with each other I see nothing wrong with it. It's natural, an instinct branded deep within us. Being intimate with your partner can take a relationship to a whole different level. It's also another compatability test I think. I'd would never marry someone without being intimate first, because if your not sexually compatable it will never last. If someone is raised to believe sex is bad up until marriage I wonder how they will ever let loose and actually enjoy it? Who knows maybe we are all missing out? :dunno:

BTW Freud was a very sexual person, and he is considered great by many.