Originally Posted by axemansean
Again you are mistaking a few basic concepts. I'll use me as an example... I want to be with a person who doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or has ever had any sexual relationships. Everything else is secondary... they may be important but they are things I am willing to work with. Sure I like dark music, computers, guitars, cars but I don't expect my partner to love them but if they did it would be an added bonus.
So if you met a person who was basically your dream girl, met all of your classifications, except for the fact that she had slept with another guy...would you pass her by? I'm talking about she is the girl you've always wanted and dreamt of....
All I'm trying to say is that if you limit yourself so stricktly, you'll let your possible soul mate (I don't know if I even believe in that, so don't get started on that) slip right through your fingers.