Originally Posted by RB
but thats my point...restricting yourself to a person who JUST meets every qualification is just screwing yourself (literally :chuckles: ). My point is that, although you may have different interests, thats what makes you a dynamic couple. I think that being with a girl that was into cars and sports would be frustrating because that would be all you talked about and eventually it would be like talking to yourself. Having different people, to me, creates different conversations and different relationship dynamics.
Again you are mistaking a few basic concepts. I'll use me as an example... I want to be with a person who doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or has ever had any sexual relationships. Everything else is secondary... they may be important but they are things I am willing to work with. Sure I like dark music, computers, guitars, cars but I don't expect my partner to love them but if they did it would be an added bonus.