Wait. No question about it.....wait. I am the girl in that situation right now. "The other guy" told me exactly how he felt, and that he was standing by as my friend....at the time I actually thought he was crazy....but the longer he remains my 'friend' the more Im starting to see how amazing he is. If he would have went in for the kill right away, I would have probably done something everyone would regret.

The best solution, IMHO, is to leave her alone and come see me. Im super neat too. Just FYI. *****